“A guy is a male by birth, a man by age,
but a Gentleman by choice.” – Unknown.
Being a Gentleman is indeed a matter of choice and it’s far beyond the art of how to treat a woman. It’s a Life Style. It’s about being a better man, the one that stands out from the crowd, that makes people feel important and comfortable around him. It’s being the man any guy wants to be like and any girl wants to be with.
The easier way to think about it is imagining a scale that rates men’s quality, starting with the Douchebag being the lowest and ending with the Gentleman being the highest. The douchebag has no standards and is focused on achieving external results, looking at the small picture, while the Gentleman has high standards and is focused on the big picture, knowing that external results are a byproduct of his life style. As a Gentleman:
You will feel great about yourself
Being a Gentleman is about being a better version of yourself and that’s why you’d want to do it for yourself, first and foremost. The way you treat others says nothing about them, but everything about you.
You will upgrade your social status
You will be the guy that stands out from the crowd thanks to his charming presence rather than his inappropriate behavior. The collected way you carry yourself in various situations as well as the respect and attention you give others, will naturally make you everyone’s favorite person in every social circle.
You will win the Girl!
You will instantly be a better date or better boyfriend or better husband than most man that were there before you, or that are currently there around you. You will become the “Best Ever” that she’ll simply forget about her past, and other men around will not stand a chance. It’s a modern life fairy tale of killing your competition and winning the girl. That’s the way to go, Prince Charming.